
A friend of mine told me how he went on an all-fruit diet for 3 days. This made me really curious and I asked him all sorts of details.
I added, "I think I want to try that. I think I'm up for something like that for some reason. I feel the need to go on a fast, or try an all-fruit diet, or maybe Epsom salts or something."
My friend responded back, "Oh yeah? You itching for some life-hacking?"
I think there's a certain kind of personality for this. Maybe it will eventually be put in the DSM-V. They could call it, "Self-Help Personality Disorder," wherein the patient constantly seeks to modify themselves, by going through various rituals, such as consuming self-help books, or engaging in fanciful diets or programs.
There's always this thought lingering in the back of my mind whenever I get sucked into a self-help book. There's always the question, "Is this impulse itself a problem?" I've been aware of this possibility for years, and based on my understanding, it can be. I've certainly been overly zealous about a self-help book that has caused damage to myself, and even to those around me. But I've also been fantastically liberated by self-help books.
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Gary Hillson said on May 25, 2009 9:25 AM
I think the people who keep moving from self-help book to self-help book or more specifically diets often lack discipline and patience. They read the book and expect immediate results and don't have the discipline to stick with it and impatiently move on to the next book / diet.